Do you become anxious when speaking
to the point where your tongue feels too large or it won’t move as
fast as you need it to in order to make the words come out? Like your
tongue is twisted in your mouth? Sometimes, it is so slow or enlarged
that you bite it as you speak. This
program can help with both slurred speech and stuttering as it provides you
with the technique for learning to relax as you speak. Trouble
speaking and Lazy tongue syndrome is the result.
Stress affects each of us differently and at different times in our
lives. One particular type of stress may evoke emotions and feelings
that challenge one's self worth. This type of stress is often
experienced by those going through rejection either in a personal
relationship or work relationship. The result is often a life crisis
which can erode one's self worth which for some individuals houses the
stress in the tongue muscle (lazy tongue syndrome and trouble
speaking). Treated effectively using the techniques
in this cd limit the lazy tongue syndrome to a transient short term
issue. Once progress is made with this program, the Overcome Life
Crisis Program is highly recommended for redefining one's meaning in
life to avoid symptom substitution.
Reacting to this type of stress, the
tongue muscle actually becomes lazy and may actually enlarge
resulting in slurred speech and difficult--not to be confused with
stuttering which is also usually related to low self esteem, but more
so a long term condition from child hood. This technique may
also be highly effective with stuttering when used with the Building
Self Worth Program.
This program uses specific proven
muscular tension relaxation exercises to improve circulation to the
tongue muscle and retrain the tongue to respond normally to the
brain's speech center. Of equal importance, powerful affirmations are
integrated to get beyond the short term self worth issues and build
confidence. It's normal for affirmations to be questioned by the
conscious mind which will negate their value. To insure the success of
affirmations, this program utilizes the power of negative thinking to
work for you. By acknowledging self doubts and negativity, the power
of hypnosis takes you beyond your perceived limitations to return your
speech to the point where you will forget that you ever had a problem.
Letting go becomes a way of life.
Profound improvements in your life circumstances may be anticipated as
a result of a new found peace. A mental relaxation allows you to drain
all the the mental and physical tensions from your body followed by
suggestions to visualize the greatness within you. The beauty of the
suggestions are that you don't have to have visualization powers to
get in touch with your greatness--your potential.
This
best selling program is the most effective program ever produced for
improving self esteem to build confidence! It
is leap years ahead of the science and today is "state of the art."
This one program on two cds accomplishes the same as other programs
requiring a half dozen cds and costing well over $200 to accomplish
the same results.
In my experience of
conducting stress management programs and counseling for over 20
years, I found that roughly 99% of those I've worked with felt that
they had low self esteem. How could this be? Simply the causes of low
self esteem are that most of us have been taught to base our
self-worth on our accomplishments, skills, physique, financial worth
and earnings, ability to help others, and so on. Little wonder then
when we:
• lose skills because of injury;
• lose a close family member on whom we're very
dependent to the great beyond;
• lose our financial nest egg because the stock market
collapses;
• do poorly in a course of study;
• have a bad hair day; or
• don't live up to our own expectations...
we don't feel good about ourselves and our selfesteem selfconfidence
are challenged. Ultimately, this may jeopardize our health, emotional
well being, set us up for failure mechanisms, be constantly trying to
impress others, identity crisis, suicide, chronic depression, and so
on.
Why, when there are so many programs available for improving self
esteem building confidence, the shortage of those who have
selfesteem?
The answer is that if you
analyze all the other programs, trainings, and techniques for
overcoming low self esteem or building selfesteem in women and men,
you'll see that they actually create the path to easily put your
selfesteem selfconfidence in jeopardy with the first calamity that
comes along in your life.
Most programs for improving
self esteem or building self esteem either instruct you to use
affirmations that simply may be rejected by your subconscious. Sure
they may fire you up for a short period of time but in a few weeks the
affirmations will be forgotten and you'll return to the same
fundamental question about your self worth.
Or, as a psychologist did for
one client, (take
the link for an example) the programs instruct you in improving
self esteem by improving some specific skills, i.e., get a better job,
a better education, some kind of specific training, attain some
achievements, and so on. Sure, with improved skills, more friends, a
better job, higher education, and specific acknowledgments for
achievements you will feel a sense of self esteem--but, in my
experience in working with hundreds of clients, it's cosmetic at best.
That is, the moment the unexpected crisis occurs that threatens or
worse yet wipes away your accomplishments, attained stature, physical
abilities, employment, and so on, you may well be left with a
lousy feeling about your self esteem. In other words, if you put all
the other programs to the test, you'll see that they set you up for
failure, and the effects on self worth is temporary at best.
This is
the one program that goes beyond you ever needing to be dependent on
you having accomplishments, connections, an education, physical
abilities, physical beauty, a certain weight, a high paying job,
physical beauty, behaved kids, your ability to spell... In fact this
program shows you how to build self worth and self esteem free of
requiring accomplishments or having to believe any affirmation. Not
that you won't create accomplishments, wealth, great looks, friends, a
higher education, a great career or whatever--you just won't need them
or be dependent on having them to feel good about yourself to overcome
low self esteem.
How is it done?
First, in improving self
esteem or building self esteem, it's important to observe (not
criticize) the sources of your role models' self esteem. It's
important to also observe (not criticize) where your self esteem has
come from in the past, i.e. what makes you feel good about you and
what you need to feel good about yourself. Thus you'll understand the
psychology of self worth and the causes of low self esteem.
The next step in beating low
self
esteem is to meet your own best friend.
So if you've ever thought that you are often your own worst enemy,
this portion of the program is particularly valuable because it
introduces you to "you," and creates the path by which you
easily become your own best friend.
Now, how do you handle
emotions? I mean feelings of anger, uncertainty, confusion,
frustration...? Self criticism in the past may have eroded your self
confidence. This program helps you to flip over
negative emotional experiences and empowers you in building self
esteem
through your experience of any emotion that life can throw your way.
Part #1 lays a foundation for
suggestions for improving self esteem building self confidence. It
gives you the easy a,b,c's for improving self esteem. It is
educational in nature for your conscious mind. And even if you never
listen to Part II which is a relaxation hypnotic program for
reprogramming the subconscious to a strong healthy self image, the
easy a,b,c instructions in Part #1 will get you there all by itself.
Part II is for your
subconscious mind. Do not listen to it while driving a vehicle. Part
II has suggestions for your subconscious mind for restoring self
esteem improving selfesteem. This side also has subliminal
suggestions (suggestions that are below the audible range). Take
the link to learn about the power of subliminal
suggestions.
The revised expanded program
also includes:
Part III which lays a foundation for
being your own best friend, brings your emotional brain up to date,
and provides an incredible means of turning disappointments into
benefits to profit from disappointments. In other words, you will
learn how to make the best tasting lemonade from the lemons that
life sometimes throws at you and feel good about yourself—keep
your self esteem--in the process. This is the bible, so to speak for
dealing with and handling emotions. Emotions are the challenge of
the twenty first century. Why, simple. We’ve had twenty centuries
of denying and pretending emotions aren’t important. And yet,
we’re emotional beings—the primitive limbic brain is the
emotional brain. Emotions were there long before language and
centuries later, we’re really very little better off handling
emotions than we were centuries ago. We generally learn how to
ignore them, pretend they don’t bother us, or to act them out. In
fact it’s our poor ability to handle emotions that keeps
psychiatrists, psychologist, therapists and many doctors in
business. Yes, poor handling of anger and rejection can lead to
depression which in turn can lead suppression of immune
function—auto immune disease and even cancers. Or instead of poor
handling of depression leading to depression, it can lead to heart
disease.
Tony Robbins in his Get the Edge
program devotes an entire cd to understanding emotions. He suggests
that there are many reasons we have emotions and that it’s
important to process each emotion—the purpose and result.
Ultimately what he suggests isn’t very different than what
psychologists and therapists have been doing for the last two
hundred years. The problem with this approach is that it’s
attempting to quantify something literally happens at the speed of
light. It’s attempting to use the rationale brain to control the
emotional brain with analysis and there just isn’t sufficient time
to accomplish this goal. It’s simply an impractical means of
handling emotions.
Part III is based on techniques
popularized in the Erhardt Training seminars of the 70’s and
80’s and The Angry Book by Isaac Rubin psychiatrist. Rather
than understanding emotions, it’s in the experience of them
through which we gain a handle on them and then can profit or in
some way benefit from them. It becomes more of a three step dance or
three frames of a cartoon as opposed to six to tendifferent analytical reasons for each
possible emotion. Instead it is through this three step process that
is the same for each and every emotion that we have which allows you
to stop the process at any one of the three steps being free of any
analytical processes to do so. It is truly the most effective method
and advanced thinking to deal with emotion! s available--one that
empowers you to meet the challenge of the 21st
century—handle all emotions in a healthy way and feel good about
yourself no matter the outcome.
This is the bible, so to
speak for dealing with and handling emotions. .
Part IV, complete with
subliminal suggestions, is for nurturing your subconscious mind as you
sleep. This is what accelerates the process of building self worth,
being your own best friend, and turning disappointments into benefits.
Part I and Part II are
the bible for building Self Worth C
d
#1 $24.95
Part III and Part IV for Building Self Worth
CD #2 $24.95
The complete program, parts I, II, III, IV, on two cd's for $49.90
$34.95.
Midlife Crisis
Time? The best
program you'll find! In fact I had to go
through a personal crisis of my own to complete this program.
Life crisis,
mid life crisis and crisis's in general are the major contributing
factors to alcoholism, drug addiction, and suppression of one's immune
system leading to life threatening illnesses.
This is the one program that will get you back on track from mid life
crisis or any other crisis. You've worked hard all your life, been
dedicated, honest, and now everything has changed. The reality sets in
that life is passing you by and the last 5, 10, 20, 30 or more years
is lost. Lost to the wrong relationship, wrong job, career, and so on.
Or you lost a skill, or your good looks, or have been crippled from an
accident, or diagnosed with a life threatening illness. You feel life
is totally unfair and has passed you by and the opportunities you've
squandered or missed are gone.
Normally
what happens is that when faced with this tremendous loss, it may take
years to adjust if ever at all. Everyday is an unwelcome reminder of
the loss of yesterday and ends in the same bleak feeling the day
before. Uselessness or high levels of anxiety to make things right,
but no solid direction to channel that anxiety.
Most of us
were taught to get our self worth from the things we do in life. It's
normal to become passionate about and identify with the things in life
that we love. Little wonder when for some reason we can no longer do
can do those things, or when we wake up and question our
relationships, the time table we set for ourselves, and suddenly find
ourselves lost. This program is about taking the lost "you"
and finding the new "you."
The brain is incredibly powerful and
because you've learned to identify yourself with what you do in life,
you set the jaws of the trap for midlife crisis or mid life crisis. As
long your relationship with what you do--the hats that you wear--is ok
or as long as you don't question the value of your hats, all is ok.
But then when the hat gets knocked off or you wake up one day and
question the value of the hat, it's mid life crisis or life crisis
time.
Part I of the program:
1. Provides you the awareness of the identity trap--IDENTITISTM
2. Gives you the tools to re identify yourself.
3. Moves you beyond the unfairness of life.
4. Empowers you to live in the present and let go of guilt of the past
and worry of the future.
5. Moves you beyond attachments defining your life.
A new leash on life!
Part II of the program, complete with subliminal suggestions, on a
separate cd plants the suggestions into your subconscious mind to
release you potential, find new pathways, and meaning once again in
life.
Bonus: On cd #2 of the program is a special bonus track. If
you're familiar with Wayne Dyer and his most recent push for each of
us to connect with intention, then you'll love this track. Or if
you've been wondering, pondering, confused about the meaning of it
all--life--God--intention--essence, then this bonus track on this cd
is a must. It's about how to really connect with intention and deal
with the emotional states and physical states that corrode your
conduit to intention--something no one else provides real sound
direction in doing.
